Al-Jadd ibn Qays
الْجَدّ بْن قَيْسal-Jadd ibn Qays
Biography
One of the elite of the Khazraj and of the circle of ʿAbdullāh ibn Ubayy, a hypocrite who remained so his whole life. When the Prophet ﷺ personally invited him to the Tabūk expedition, "Would you not campaign against the Romans, O Jadd?", he begged off with a flimsy excuse: that he had a weakness for women and feared he could not restrain himself if he saw the Byzantine women, the Banāt Banī al-Aṣfar. The Prophet ﷺ turned away from him, and Allāh exposed the excuse in the Qurʾān: مِنْهُم مَّن يَقُولُ ائْذَن لِّي وَلَا تَفْتِنِّي, "among them is he who says, 'Grant me leave and do not tempt me', surely into the fitnah they have fallen" (9:49).
Significance
His "Roman women" pretext is the occasion of Qurʾān 9:49 and a classic Sīrah example of the hypocrites' transparent excuses for shirking Tabūk.