Safiyyah bint Huyayy
صَفِيَّةُ بِنْتُ حُيَيٍّṢafiyyah bint Ḥuyayy
Biography
Ṣafiyyah bint Ḥuyayy was the daughter of Ḥuyayy ibn Akhṭab, a chieftain of Banū al-Naḍīr. As a child in Medina she was the favorite of her father and uncle, until the day the Prophet ﷺ arrived, when she overheard her uncle ask, is he the one? and her father answer: yes, by the Lord of Mūsā, and we will oppose him as long as he lives. Exiled with her tribe, she grew up in Khaybar and married there. The Battle of Khaybar (7 AH) took her father, brother, and husband; taken captive, she fell to the lot of Diḥyah al-Kalbī before the Prophet ﷺ ransomed her. He covered her with his cloak, the sign that told the companions she would be a wife, not a concubine, tested her heart with the memory of her father's enmity, and heard her answer with the Qurʾan: no bearer of burdens bears the burden of another. Choosing Allah and His Messenger over freedom among her people, she was freed and married, her manumission itself her mahr. Among the wives she belonged to neither ʿĀʾishah's camp nor Zaynab's, having no family of her own; the Prophet ﷺ armed her against the slur of 'daughter of the Jewess', say: my father is a Prophet, my uncle is a Prophet, and I am married to a Prophet. At his deathbed she wept, wishing to bear his fever herself, and he swore she spoke truly. She lived to seek to aid ʿUthmān under siege and died in 52 AH, among the last of the Mothers of the Believers.
Significance
Lost her father, brother, and husband to the Khaybar campaign, yet chose Islam and the Prophet ﷺ over freedom among her people, for the shaykh, the sīrah's starkest proof of what īmān does to a heart.
Stories
The Expulsion of Banu al-Nadir
historicalShaykh Yasir Qadhi explains: BACKGROUND TENSIONS By the time of their expulsion, Banū al-Naḍīr already carried a history of friction with the Muslim…
Read the full story →Safiyyah: From Captive of Khaybar to Mother of the Believers
companion biographyShaykh Yasir Qadhi explains: **IS HE THE ONE?** Ṣafiyyah tells her own story in many narrations. As a young girl she was the favorite of her father…
Read the full story →Safiyyah Among the Wives: Slurs, a Boycott, and the Deathbed Tears
companion biographyShaykh Yasir Qadhi explains: **A WIFE WITHOUT A CAMP** The wives of the Prophet ﷺ fell broadly into two camps, ʿĀʾishah's and Zaynab's, and Ṣafiyyah…
Read the full story →Historical context
The Marriages Around Khaybar
historical noteShaykh Yasir Qadhi explains: Around the time of Khaybar, several marriages of the Prophet ﷺ cluster together. The long-deferred story of Zaynab bint…
Read the historical context →The Dream, the Walimah of Hays, and the Stumbling Camel
historical noteShaykh Yasir Qadhi explains: **THE DREAM OF THE MOON** When the Prophet ﷺ first saw Ṣafiyyah he noticed a fresh bruise on her face and asked about i…
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